Couples' Counselling: A Clear, Structured Way Forward

Couples usually come to me when they want a transparent and equitable way forward. Often, communication is strained, decisions are difficult, or intimacy has dwindled — and both partners are looking for a steady, structured space to understand what’s happening and what it means, without blame or escalation.

My role is to help you slow the dynamic down, observe the patterns without distortion and create enough stability for honest, reflective communication. From there, we work through practical steps to clarify what is workable, restore cooperation where possible, rebuild trust where it can be rebuilt, and improve how you respond to one another in difficult moments.

In our work together, we focus on helping you both to:

• Speak and listen without defensiveness

• Recognise the patterns that trigger conflict

• Understand what each partner is trying to protect

• Respond to each other with more steadiness and less reactivity

• Make decisions that respect both investments

• Establish a more sustainable rhythm of connection, or reach clarity about its limits

The aim isn’t to fix either partner. It’s to offer structure, clarity and direction so you can decide — together — whether and how the relationship can move forward.

I charge €250 for an initial couple’s session. For some couples, one session provides the clarity they need. Many find that a short, structured series of five sessions offers enough depth, insight and practical guidance to move forward with greater confidence in their decision, whatever that may be. If it’s helpful, we can talk this through together.

If you’d like to explore working together, I take on a small number of couples and carefully assess whether I’m the right help for your situation.

To start a conversation, use the form below to share a brief outline of your circumstances. I’ll reply as soon as I can.